A Conversation with Sri Sathya Sai Baba

A Conversation with Sri Sathya Sai Baba

Bhagavan Sri Sathya Sai Baba giving darshan in Prashanti Nilayam in the years ’70

The following conversation between a devotee and Sai Baba took place in Prasanthi Nilayam many years ago and was first published in an early issue of the Sanathana Sarathi, the official ashram magazine.

Devotee: Swami! The world is very cruel to me.

Sai Baba: That is its nature. The purpose of the world is frustration; it has to engender need. When the need is strong enough, the individual seeks fulfilment.

Devotee: And fails!

Sai Baba: Only when he seeks fulfilment without! Within him, he can get it. The within is accessible always; it is ever responsible. There is pain only so long as attachment for outer forms remains. Ultimate relief from pain can come only with the loss of ego, the neutralisation of that which reacts to something as pain and something else as pleasure, whose memory, whose conditioning, helps to recognise the dualities of joy and grief.

Devotee: But the world, Swami?

Sai Baba: The world is pain. Expect nothing from the world but that. I willed the totality of your conditioned existence to be pain, in order to draw you to me.

Devotee: Which I can, at best, only hope to attain.

Sai Baba: God asks for neither hope nor despair. They are subject to relativity. Universal Being is beyond both hope and despair, both certainty and doubt. It knows no lingering in its conclusions. It is ever flowing, in all directions, and in none of them.

Devotee: What then shall be my direction?

Sai Baba: Take what works today for today. What works tomorrow for tomorrow. One day at a time, each day for itself, each moment for itself, without a past, without memory, without conclusions.

Devotee: Conclusions?

Sai Baba: Yes. Conclusions bind; they press on the mind. The newborn baby is not confined to conclusions. All conclusions enslave. Most men are slaves to the conclusions into which they have fallen.

Devotee: Does that mean I have to give up my practice of concentration?

Sai Baba: The question that bothers you is one of fixity. You tried to fix your thought and attention on a word and later on a form, but you discovered that nothing lasts, that everything has to change. But I tell you; awareness can remain, even when form subsides, even when the word melts away.

Devotee: I find it difficult to hold my attention on form or word.

Sai Baba: Because when you try to meditate, the very trial invites the success-failure conflict onto the scene. You say to yourself, it is good to meditate on this and not that, or to meditate on that is wrong or foolish. Practise choicelessness; no objective, no intention. Be yourself. Choose no particular form, for all are equally His. Choose no particular word or sound, for all are His.

Devotee: I am often tossed between contradictory beliefs.

Sai Baba: Contradictions are inevitable. It is the very nature of this world and of the mind. But you can choose, either to be buffeted endlessly by the apparent contradictions or to remain in the calm centre of the cyclone. This is the problem of all problems, the problem of peripheral or central being.

Devotee: The circumference or the centre, the rim or the hub of the wheel?

Sai Baba: Yes. The hub is calm, steady, unmoved. But the mind will be drawn along the spokes, the objective desires, to revolve over mud and stone, sand and thorns. It will not believe that it can get bliss from the centre, rather than from the circumference, without undergoing a rough journey over turbulent terrain.

Devotee: Ultimately, it means the conquest of the mind?

Sai Baba: Learn to let all the conflicts spawned by the mind play themselves out, and cancel each other out. Be the witness to the holocaust. The ultimate solution to the conflict is not decision or even choice, but passive being. Dare to remain inconclusive. See the endless quandaries of the mind as a divine leela, God’s sport, as the natural function of the bundle of desires called mind. Do not believe in mind; do not rally to its assertions and appetites. Watch the mind from a distance; do not get involved in its tumblings and turnings. Then everything becomes insignificant. When everything recedes into meaninglessness, you are in the hub, in equanimity.

Devotee: Swami, you are the hub, the spokes and the rim.

Sai Baba: Do not be concerned with who I am! Concern yourself with who you are and how you can be ever aware of that truth. Do not be a willing captive of the endless stratagems of the mind. Abstain from all that draws you into its web. I will lead you, if you rely on me. The alternatives of the world will not bring you happiness, for the mind, which revels in alternatives, is but a will-of-the-wisp, flitting before your vision. I do not judge you for what is never yours, really. Your imperfection is no obstacle for me.

Devotee: I confess that I have not always observed the rules of conduct of the Sathya Sai Organisation.

Sai Baba: Your mind keeps asking for rules. But when you get the rules, you find you cannot keep them. Rules engender rigidity, they force. They do not bloom out of love or spread love. There is always a way of doing a thing without the strain of a rule. See how unperturbed I am with your restlessness! I live thus, so that I may afford a lesson for you to learn.

Devotee: I am restless, Swami, because I yearn for rest and do not get it.

Sai Baba: It is your reaction to restlessness that is bad, not the restlessness itself. Restlessness is only the rise and fall of a wave on the ocean that you are. Nothing matters, so long as the depths are secure. Success is not important: failure does not matter. The river of eternity is flowing ever into the ocean of the Supreme Will.

Devotee: How long am I to be torn apart from that Supreme Will?

Sai Baba: You are a fraction of that Supreme Will. That is why you are afflicted with the hunger to seek It and to merge in It and to find fulfilment and bliss thereby. Turning to the world for solace and sustenance to appease that hunger has been tried by countless generations, including your own, but the hunger is gnawing still.

Devotee: What then is the proper reaction to the attractions of the world?

Sai Baba: Let go. Don’t cling. Be still. Establish yourself in the homelessness of the mind; physical homelessness will not earn the victory. There are many spiritual aspirants still caught in the coils of greed, envy, pride and power seeking. They have not escaped from their homes. They have built prisons around themselves. I describe homelessness of the mind as mind abiding nowhere.

Devotee: And wandering everywhere?

Sai Baba: Do not exclude anything. Be the witness of everything. The exclusive cannot endure. God is all. Your restlessness came from exclusion, the pressure exerted by the excluded into the area from which it was excluded. All is God; how can you push God out of His Domain? Your mind concludes that the cause for the restlessness is whatever concerns it at the time. The actual cause is not that. You limit God by your assumptions, hence the restlessness. For you too are divine, and your reality protests against that limitation.

Devotee: Swami! Sometimes I feel so sad that I am so strange, so different in habits from the rest of those that come to you for succour.

Sai Baba: If your path contrasts entirely with those around you, believe that it is my will for you. Every way is my way and ways seemingly indirect may be the most direct for some spiritual seekers. For me there are no impossible cases, no incorrigible cases. Practise choicelessness as hitherto prescribed. Choicelessness is constant contentment.

Questioner: Swami, I am addicted to tea drinking, which hurts me. How can I stop this practice?

Sai Baba: Heaven is not refused to those who drink tea! A rajasic person is rendered hyperactive by tea, but to an invalid it is a welcome lift. But do not adore tea as the only reality. Now with regard to these habits that have gripped you, there are two methods by which you can discard them. The first is deprivation, denial. This can yield only temporary success. When one’s determination relaxes, the habit reasserts itself and it becomes difficult to resist. The second method is to become so absorbed in something far more pleasing that the habit falls off by itself. Remember, what is transient is not important. What is important is eternal. My prescriptions are varied; they differ from person to person, from stage to stage, even in the case of the same person. All prescriptions work. Let people come to me through Bhajan, through Japa, through Meditation, through Mantras, through Tantra or Seva ? as I ordain. Every one will come to me; everyone has to come to me. There are no exceptions.

A Conversation with Sri Sathya Sai Baba – A Divine Reflection On Love, Faith, And Inner Guidance

A Conversation with Sri Sathya Sai Baba is not only an exchange of words; it is a sacred meeting between the human heart and divine wisdom. For a devotee, even one sentence from Swami can become a lifelong guide. His words were simple, direct, loving, and filled with deep spiritual meaning. He spoke not only to the ears, but to the conscience within.

In a true spiritual conversation, the devotee may ask questions about life, suffering, duty, devotion, fear, family, service, or the purpose of human birth. But Sri Sathya Sai Baba always guided attention back to the heart. He reminded seekers that the real goal is not merely to solve outer problems, but to discover the divinity within and live with love.

A Conversation with Sri Sathya Sai Baba teaches that God is not far away. Swami often explained that the Divine is present in every heart as conscience, love, and inner strength. When people search outside without purifying the heart, they remain restless. But when they turn inward with sincerity, they begin to feel peace, guidance, and courage.

Many devotees approached Swami with personal worries, but His answers often carried universal wisdom. He could comfort the suffering heart while also teaching discipline and responsibility. He did not encourage weakness or self-pity. He gave strength by reminding devotees to have faith, do their duty, and trust divine grace.

A Conversation with Sri Sathya Sai Baba also reminds us that love is the foundation of spiritual life. Swami’s message of love all, serve all and help ever, hurt never is not only a slogan. It is a practical path for every day. A person who truly loves God must learn to speak gently, forgive quickly, serve humbly, and avoid hurting others.

In a conversation with Swami, silence itself could become a teaching. His look, smile, gesture, or brief word could answer questions hidden deep in the mind. This shows that divine communication is not limited to language. When the heart is pure and receptive, guidance can come through intuition, prayer, experience, or inner peace.

A Conversation with Sri Sathya Sai Baba teaches the importance of self-examination. Swami did not want devotees to blame the world for every difficulty. He encouraged them to look within and remove anger, ego, jealousy, pride, greed, and selfishness. True spirituality begins when a person honestly asks, “How can I become better?”

Faith was another important lesson in Swami’s guidance. Faith does not mean that life will be free from challenges. It means that the devotee will not feel alone during challenges. Problems may test patience, but they can also strengthen prayer. When faith is steady, fear becomes weaker and the heart gains courage.

A Conversation with Sri Sathya Sai Baba becomes meaningful when His teachings are practiced in daily life. If we admire His words but continue to speak harshly, act selfishly, or ignore the suffering of others, then we have not truly listened. Real listening means allowing the teaching to transform our thoughts, words, and actions.

Swami often reminded devotees that service to man is service to God. A sincere conversation with Him would always lead toward responsibility, not escape. Feeding the hungry, helping the sick, educating children, comforting the sad, and serving society without ego are all ways of worshipping the Divine present in all.

A Conversation with Sri Sathya Sai Baba also teaches that peace is not found by changing the whole world, but by purifying the mind. Desires, comparisons, anger, and attachment disturb inner peace. Prayer, discipline, gratitude, and selfless service help the mind become steady. When the heart is peaceful, even difficult situations can be faced with balance.

The true devotee does not seek conversation only for personal benefit. He listens to understand how to live better and serve better. Swami’s words are like seeds. If they are kept only in memory, they remain seeds. If they are planted in practice, they grow into character, compassion, and wisdom.

A Conversation with Sri Sathya Sai Baba finally reminds us that Swami’s guidance continues through His teachings, His love, and His presence in the heart. Though one may not sit physically before Him, sincere prayer can still open the door to inner guidance. When we live His message, we feel closer to Him.

In the end, the most important conversation with Swami happens within the conscience. Every moment, the inner voice asks us to choose truth over falsehood, love over anger, service over selfishness, and faith over fear. When we listen to that voice and live accordingly, life becomes a sacred dialogue with the Divine.

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